saturday night live!

So, today is going to be awesome! I'm @ work rite now updatin. My shift today is 6am to 2pm. So, I'm almost goin home. Well, the plan today is go home from work, make cassava cake and go to the party. Then after the party, its goin to be Pacman's fight at Tita's house. The party tonite is for one of my friends's bachelorette's party. I amso exciteddddd for tonight because we prepared a really nice surprise for her. She is goin to be soooo embarassed just because. Ill try to take pics tonite but I don't think ill be able to take pics tho. Its prohibited. But ill try. Haha. I'm so excited now. Gtg, guys.

the most talked about.

LOVE.

I think this is the most talked about everyday, 24/7, 365 days.

Love is all around us. Doesn't matter if its love for a person, animal, nature etc. it is still complicated one way or the other.

My definition of love? Love is when you take out the passion, and desire & you are left with trust, understanding and God. That is real love.

Love is never about how good he looks. How smart he is. How athletic he is. How rich he is. His coolness factor doesn't count when talking about love. That's just admiration.

Love is when it's okay not to txt him every 5 mins. Everybody needs to understand this part... You have to be comfortable with him. Trust him that he is where he says he is. Don't keep waiting for his text or calls. He might be busy doing something important. Don't stop your world just because he's not there. Don't depend on him to be there all the time because, trust me, at some point, he's not going to be there for you. Plain truth. Make your own decisions. And here is the main point about love: It is a two-way street. Both of you needs to put a little bit of effort. 50/50. Don't give 90, while he gives 10. Equilibrium. Balance. Make him understand.

And when you are comfortable with him, thats when you can say you're in love.

p.s. Those are the things that I have experienced. :)

pilipinas, game ka na ba?

I was downstairs with Bella, watching TFC. A preview of Boy Abunda's show came up with the title, " BOTTOM LINE ". He said something like, Ready na ba ang Pilipinas na magkaroon ng gay marriage?

In my opinion, Philippines is not ready for gay marriages. First off, majority of Filipinos are Roman Catholic and gay marriages are not accepted. Second of all, Filipinos tends to scrutinize other people's lives than their own. Third, chismoso ang mga Pinoy. Thats the truth. Truth hurts, i know. But here's my advice: What other people thinks about you is none of your business. Fourth, we discriminate people who don't "belong". We talk behind their backs. We laugh at them.

See how immature we are? Yes, i know. That is why I think it would a circus if ever gay marriages happens to be approve in the Philippines. Ganyan kaliit ang mga utak ng ibang mga Pilipino.

And disclaimer.
I am not talking about ALL Filipinos. I am just saying the truth based on what I see, hear and know. I've been in the Philippines long enough to know how it all works and trust me, I know na masaya ang mga tsismosa sa kanto if ever na ma-approve ang gay marriage sa Pilipinas. They will have alot of things to talk about. Low-lifes.

Anyway, this entry is entirely my opinion. Not bias. Just the plain truth.
Good day and have an amazing day everyone.

a little girls' nightmare

This is a very sad story that I am about to narrate. True story. Happening right now.

My mom has a friend and co-worker name Jen. Jen has two kids. One is 2 years old and the other is 18 months old. Jen and her two kids were home & she went outside for a smoke, i guess. The 2 years-old kid turned on the hot water in the bath tub and the 18 months old kid jumped in! So, they had to rush the 18months old to the OR... The doctors did sooo much test and whatnot and now, my mom just found out that the best thing to do is to amputate her foot. Her foot suffered from severe burn. 3 degree burn. So', can you imagine yourself encoutering such experience and pain? If they dont amputate her foot now, it will get worst because there is no more circulation there. Before it starts to affect her whole legs, the doctors are advising the family to decide what to do now than later.

When my mom told me about this....I almost cried for the baby and the mother. I cannot imagine what I would do if Bella goes through that nightmare. I mean, think about it.... she's only 18 months old... she still has the rest of her life!

Anyhow, please do include this baby in your prayers tonight. She needs it. Thank you guys in advance. :)

sweet home

I am finally home. Someone wise once told me that "you will never know the meaning of home until you go out into the world." Well, guess what? I do know now. Its a crazy thing. I mean, I love california because glen is over there and he taught me so much when it comes to our relationship...but being home, in my own bed, with Bella next to me....it feels incredible.

When I was in Cali, glen and I, all we did was laugh and laugh, and more laughter. He makes fun of me and I make fun of him. He's an amazing man....and I got real lucky. I keep telling that to everybody because he is a fantastic man. God gave me the best man. He taught me that in our relationship, we have to stop thinking about ourseleves and think about the family. We have the rest of our lifetime to spend it together. That's what he told me. And it was very well said, I know he's honest with me.

Anyhow, these are the pics taken in California:

Leaving Chicago.

my seat && frappyy.

" If ever you're in my arms again... "

Jollibee!!!!!

the dessert after the Chicken Joy&spaghetti.

On our way to the hotel.

With my new phone& inside the hotel.

During this vacay, i had at least 5 caramel frap in total. crazyyy.

My fave outlet mall. This one has everything. Apple store, ttheater, Louis Vitton, Coach, Burburry, Forever 21, Victoria Secret...

This was for dinner. YUMMM. I am telling you.

and this is yet, one of the yummiest soup ever!

me and my love.

So, anyhow, this was another great trip to Cali. I couldn't ask for more...if you know what I mean. haha.

jetlag

This is the horrible part. Believe it or not. Jetlag. I know, I know California is only R hours away and 2hours behind compare to Chicago but dang it! Its barely 5.30am and I've been awake. Greatttt! So muc for fun. Well, this is my update for today through my new cellphone, The Motorola Blur. It is one of the Droids from Tmobile. Expensive but heck, its amazing! Hahaha. Anyway, back to the update.... glen picked me up from LAX airport, we went to Jollibeeeeeee! It was delicious! The chicken joy and the spaghetti. Then, we went to Goldilocks to buy sum pasalubong like polvoron, pastillias and much more. Then, we went to the hotel to settle in muna for a while. Then, glen went to the store to buy me sum shampoo, tootbrush and toothpaste. This is the crazy thing about the States, someone always want to blow us up. So, the amount of liquid that we can carry is now down to 1 ounce. What can you really bring for ONE ounce? Really? So I have decided to just check in my luggage because I will not leave my Victoria secret perfume. Never. It costs me 25bucks just for checking it in. Crappp. Anyhow, we went to an outlet mall and bought him a speaker for his ipod. I gave him the ipod for our 2years anniversary from Apple store online. The nice thing about it is that online, you can have some words engraved in the back of the ipod. For almost 300 bucks, it was a good deal! So, after going to the apple store in the mall, we went to Jane and Jack, I believe, that's the name and bought Bella a ton of clothes! With a pretty dress! Haha. She will lock soooo amazingly gorgeous on them. After shopping for my two spoiled brats, we went to the movie theater and saw the movie, Dear John. Ohemgee! Amazing. I think I cried more than one.... wow. I gave it 4stars. But nothing can top my favorite, A walk to remember. Anyway, its already 6am so, ima end this now and try to go back to bed. Night guys.

ohhh California!

I think that's a song from somewhere! I'm trying to think from which album. Anyway, I have decided to let blogger be my permanent home from now on. It is such a big hassle to keep up blogs when someone "hosts" you. SO much responsibility. Trust me, the last thing I need is more responsibilities. I mean, with my status in life....I don't need have a lot of time in hand. With Blogger, I don't have the pressure of jumping in my laptop to update for the sake of updating.

Anyhow, that's behind me. Next thing is California! ^_^

I am going to see Glen tomorrow for few days. I am just so excited because I have been working my ass off and I NEED A BREAK. Please. :)

Here's my schedule for tomorrow's flight:

Departure:

Chicago @ 7:20am

Los Angeled @ 9:20am.

Return:

Los Angeles @ 12pm

Chicago @ 6pm

I want to go to Jollibee! That's why. LOL. I have already packed my bags and Bella is going to be okay for the next few days. I already wrote down all the emergency numbers, just in case. Her insurance card. Extra money. Did her bottles. Boxes of diapers, wipes and more milk. The milk will be good for another 2 month, i must say. Matakaw kasi eh.

Jeez. I already have to go and get ready for work. 2-10pm is my shift. Imagine that. Have an amazing day guys. :)