Wednesday, March 10, 2010

the most talked about.

LOVE.

I think this is the most talked about everyday, 24/7, 365 days.
Love is all around us. Doesn't matter if its love for a person, animal, nature etc. it is still complicated one way or the other.

My definition of love? Love is when you take out the passion, and desire & you are left with trust, understanding and God. That is real love.

Love is never about how good he looks. How smart he is. How athletic he is. How rich he is. His coolness factor doesn't count when talking about love. That's just admiration.

Love is when it's okay not to txt him every 5 mins. Everybody needs to understand this part... You have to be comfortable with him. Trust him that he is where he says he is. Don't keep waiting for his text or calls. He might be busy doing something important. Don't stop your world just because he's not there. Don't depend on him to be there all the time because, trust me, at some point, he's not going to be there for you. Plain truth. Make your own decisions. And here is the main point about love: It is a two-way street. Both of you needs to put a little bit of effort. 50/50. Don't give 90, while he gives 10. Equilibrium. Balance. Make him understand.

And when you are comfortable with him, thats when you can say you're in love.

p.s. Those are the things that I have experienced. :)

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